I've worked with over 260 clients who all have one thing in common--they were smart enough and brave enough to finally reach out for help to get their homes decluttered and organized.   Sometimes life gets in the way and your house gets out of control, and sometimes mental and emotional issues prevent you from letting go of things until they build up into what can become a hoarding situation.  It's OK to ask for help.  It's OK to admit that you can't make it right all by yourself.   I understand that you may be embarrassed about your situation.  I am not there to judge you--I am there to help you get to a better place.